What’s on your mind?

Think about this for a moment…….For the majority of the time – are you thinking negative thoughts or positive thoughts? (the key here is to be honest with yourself)  If our thoughts are continually cycling negative things over and over again, then we will attract negative. If you think about positive things, or happy thoughts, then you will attract positive. This is basically LIKE attracts LIKE rule.

You’ve heard the saying “Birds of a feather flock together” right? Do you have people in your life that are “like” you? You need to have positive people in your life. They will be the ones to encourage you, support you when you’re on top and when you’re in the valley, and be a positive influence for making you the best you can be.

Now – you know there are negative nellies in this world. We all have known someone who likes drama or always has something stirring in their lives. They actually thrive on it! They want to attract people who will be just like them. Complaining about things in their lives instead of seeing anything positive!! Those are the ones to stay away from. They will bring you down to their level in a matter of time. Don’t!!! Life is short to be down where you don’t want to be. Make that change.

Believe it or not, i was actually in a relationship with a NN (negative nellie). I’m so not like that either. I’m the POSITIVE one. I’m confident and outgoing. I wake up every morning in a positive happy mood. To be with someone like that it literally drained my energy every day. It wasn’t good at all. I felt myself changing just to make it alright for the other person. And no matter how I tried, I couldn’t get that person to see anything positive. I made the change to make it better.

So let me ask you – What’s on your mind? What do you want to attract? Positive or Negative? I know it would be hard to really face the fact if you are the NN. But I know you can change if you really want to. If something has caused you to be negative, then ask yourself what it is that has made you this way. Trust me when you ask yourself a question, your mind immediately searches your database to give you an answer. Find the reason, forgive someone if you need to – it will free you – literally! Again – life is too short. Move on and be the positive person for others in your life. You will attract what you put out there.

Love & Passion

D

 

2 thoughts on “What’s on your mind?

    1. Yes! And yes it is hard at times especially when you are in a valley instead of on the mountain top. Keep active, keep social with positive supporting friends, and remind yourself you are a strong, smart, beautiful, and confident woman. Write it on post it notes so you see it every morning. Just a few suggestions. just like I said on your post – You have an awesome spirit! I can sense that.

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